Jan Pickens*

According to 2013 Doing the Most Good Luncheon Chair Jan Pickens,

“The Salvation Army is best known for its Red Kettle Campaign, but did you know that the Doing the Most Good Luncheon is ranked as the largest fundraising luncheon in Dallas? This year’s luncheon will be held on Friday, November 15, at 12 p.m. at the Hilton Anatole Hotel. The speaker will be announced later this fall, and with past speakers such as six-time Grammy award winner Amy Grant and Toms Shoes Founder Blake Mycoskie, this luncheon will surely entertain and motivate you to want to do more for our community.

“This year’s Doing The Most Good Luncheon will also kick off the 125^th anniversary of The Salvation Army locally and across Texas, followed by a year of exciting activities planned by 125^th Anniversary Chair Charlotte Anderson.

“There’s no organization that I’ve ever been involved with that I have served my faith and others so visibly than The Salvation Army. It’s my fifth time to chair this event, so I must love its mission. The Salvation Army’s mission is to preach the gospel of Jesus Christ and to meet human needs in His name without discrimination.

“The Salvation Army is a worldwide organization known for its endeavors helping the unfortunate and disadvantaged without discrimination. The Salvation Army has extensive programs to assist with needs ranging from sheltering the homeless to providing summer camps and music instruction for children.

“I hope you will join me on November 15. For more information on purchasing tickets, which are $300, or about underwriting, go to salvationarmydfw.org, or contact 214.637.8254 or dfwmc_events@uss.salvationarmy.org.”

* Photo provided by The Salvation Army

Jack Knox (File photo)

Tuesday was a long day for the Café Pacific staff. But it was a long time coming. Back in 1980, former Dallas Cowboys quarterback Craig Morton’s buddy Mel Harris convinced businessman/lawyer Jack Knox to partner with him on a restaurant. There was an empty space in Highland Park Village just across the street from the S&S Tearoom. It would be called Café Pacific. But the partnership soured after 18 months, when Mel “handed over” the front-door keys to Jack saying that Knox knew “nothing about running a restaurant.”

Today Jack is the first to admit that Mel was right.

But Tuesday night, the man who knew nothing about restaurants was celebrating 33 years of CP’s being the go-to-place for boldface names to celebrate holidays, hold tête-à-têtes, and enjoy pristine service that makes “Gosford Park” seem like a Dairy Queen drive-thru.

The celebration started with a Monday night email in which Jack sent word to loyal CP friends that, on Tuesday, he was turning the clock and the menu back to opening day, August 27, 1980, complete with 1980 prices. Bouillabaisse under $11; Caesar salad for $2.95, etc. By 8 p.m. they had run out of CP’s signature Baked Artichoke.

As the scent of garlic and the sound of convivial chatter wafted through the place last evening, the white-tablecloth restaurant was filled with the likes of Chris Turner, Lynn and Allan McBee and Doris and Jack Jacobs with Lee Bailey. General Manager David Knouse and Dining Room Manager Vincent McGrath showed no sign of weariness, despite the day of non-stop greeting guests like beloved relatives and apologizing for not having their favorite table available Johnny-on-the-spot.

Jack himself was also at the front welcoming guests, visiting tables to make sure everything was going smoothly, and settling back on a stool in the bar surrounded by friends. Looking around the café’s elegant surroundings, with its brass rails and polished hardwood walls, he recalled a time in the late 1950′s when the restaurant space had been Everts Jewelers, with counters where tables now line the area along the windows. He had bought a necklace from Everts, whisper thin and costing him what seemed like a fortune, for his college sweetheart.

Last night he was once again making a sweetheart deal. It seems Monday night a friend suggested that Jack donate 50 cents for each of Tuesday’s orders to a nonprofit group. Without hesitation, Jack upped the ante, like a fraternity chum on a winning streak in a poker game. He would donate all of Tuesday’s sales to Texas Scottish Rite Hospital.

So typical of Jack, the man who knew nothing about running a restaurant in 1980. But for 33 years he’s been Dallas’ prince of hospitality, generosity and class.

After appearing on WFAA’s way-early morning show with Ron Corning this A.M., Cattle Baron’s Ball Co-Chairs Mary Gill and Brooke Shelby and the CBB committee gathered today, compared notes and compared notes and compared notes. After checking with the best weather experts around and the event producers, they reaffirmed the plan to have the Saturday shindig at Southfork.

OK, so why the question? Evidently some of the weather-meisters have been saying there might be rainy weather in the area. Anyone who has lived in North Texas knows the weather changes hourly, so who knows what’s gonna happen Saturday.

MySweetCharity’s Queenie did get her buddy Ma Nature to fess up that there might be some rain in the morning, resulting in a cold front in the area.

What does that mean? Morning rain and a day of temps in the upper 60’s. Yummy! Around the MySweetCharity universe, this is considered cuddling time. So, haul out those lavish leathers, swell suedes and fabulous furs (both real and faux). Don’t forget they all go with those boots that have been playing second fiddle to the stilettos in your closet for way too long.

Since the CBB gals are busily prepping for Saturday, there’s no need to call and check in with them. They’re headed up north to Plano, and so should you on Saturday.

As Queenie noted: “’Spur on’ and get your chaps to Southfork to whip up on cancer!”

Mark Craig

The Robert S. Folsom Award Dinner at the Hilton Anatole on Tuesday, September 24, was just one wave after another of OMG moments. Perhaps it was because the honoree was a man of God — retired Rev. Mark Craig, with a fan base ranging from Dallas Cowboys coaches to U.S. presidents.

Sydney Huffines and Lee Ann White

With Craig having recently retired from his duties as senior minister of Highland Park United Methodist Church, it seemed like the entire congregation had shown up. Not really, but the 900 guests including Patsy Donosky, Troy Aikman, Capa Mooty, Sydney Huffines, Lee Ann White, Michael Fowler, Kate Dorff, Marla and Mike Boone, Nancy Dedman, Jan and Fred Hegi, Billy Bob Harris, Tony Goolsby, Ray Huffines, Nancy Ann and Ray Hunt, Ashlee and Chris Kleinert  and Travis Box, who filled the Grand Ballroom, were the lucky ones. It seems there was a sizable waiting list for the sell-out benefit for the Methodist Health System Foundation. It’s known as the dinner with surprises, and MHSF President April Box Chamberlain and her staff maintained their perfect home-run record.

Mike and Natalie McGuire, April Box Chamberlain, Mark Craig and Lana and Barry Andrews

Jim Francis warned friends to expect quite an evening, but wouldn’t explain more. All he said was, “Take notes. You’re gonna enjoy the evening.” He likes to sit back and watch the expressions on people’s faces when the surprises take place.

Dean Fearing

But as soon as guests took their seats, it soon because apparent. First surprise was the evening’s emcee — Chef Dean Fearing. He told of Mark’s asking about helping with a dinner in the Craig home for Laura and former President George W. Bush and Gail and Dr. Gerald Turner. First came a great exchange between the minister and the chef (“Do I need to go to Tom Thumb and get the food?”). When the big day arrived, Dean was on hand to prepare the meal. But he discovered the table set for seven. Had Mark invited another guest? There were two Craigs, two Bushes and two Turners. Who was #7? Mark explained it was set for the chef to join in. That was important, he said, because if there was a lull in the conversation, Dean was to tell some stories.

Brill Garrett and Troy Aikman

Then Methodist Health System President Dr. Steve Mansfield (he’s finishing his seventh year in the position) and Event Co-Chair Barry Andrews spoke. Barry mentioned how Dallas Cowboys Coach Jason Garrett was in San Diego — “he’s got a big test in San Diego next Sunday at 3:30, so he’s home studying for it.” (Luckily, Jason’s blonde, beautiful wife Brill was front and center.)

Barry then addressed Mark, saying, “Mark, you’ve touched so many lives. We set a goal we thought was ambitious. Jim Francis can give ambitious goals. We’re proud and thrilled to let you know that we’ve raised $1.5M! You went for the gold, and you got it!”

A Masterpiece Theatre-version video was presented with Rev. Paul Rasmussen, Mark’s mother Louise Craig, Harlan Crow, Mark’s children, Jason Garrett, Gerald Turner and Jim Francis. From being a lover of vintage books and their bindings, to President George W. Bush’s attributing his running for president to one of Mark’s sermons, the minister was revealed with love and humor.

Guests dined on a menu of Mark’s favorite foods (roasted corn chowder with venison sausage en croute, grilled medallions of beef tenderloin topped with crispy leeks, wild mushroom sauce, cheesy potato custard, roasted Brussels sprouts with crispy pancetta bacon, mini banquette and jalapeno corn muffins and traditional banana pudding with vanilla wafers).

April Box Chamberlain

Promptly at 8:30 p.m., April reported to the guests that in addition to having a record crowd, they had also raised a record-breaking amount (that $1.5M) for the Charles A. Sammons Tower for Critical Care, at Mark’s request.

Then with a bigger-than-big smile, April introduced the person who was to introduce Mark. The gentleman was a member of Mark’s congregation — former President George W. Bush, who arrived at the podium to a standing O.

George W. Bush

The former White House resident looked relaxed, healthy and sincerely happy to be part of the celebration for Mark. To emphasize Mark’s influence in his life, the former president read a selection from his “Decision Points.” Starting off, he said, “It’s actually germane for tonight; it’s not crass marketing. But if you haven’t bought the book, there’s ample inventory.” Describing the scenario mentioned earlier, W recalled how when he was governor and considering the run for president, there were moments of clarity along the way. He and Laura invited Mark to come to First United Methodist Church in downtown Austin. He told his mother [Barbara Bush] that he had been struggling with the presidential-run decision. She said to get over it. . .  make up your mind and move on. Then Mark’s sermon struck. It was like “Exodus,” where God calls Moses to action. The message was profound, scholarly, candid, straightforward and very funny, W said, adding that Craig “is one of our country’s greatest preachers.”

Mark Craig

As W and Mark exchanged places on the stage, an extra chair was brought to the head table for the former president. The minister started off, “Thank you, Mr. President. I know it’s late for you.” He then told the audience that he’d being singing the same song all day: the Righteous Brothers’ “You’ve Lost That Loving Feeling.” In typical Mark Craig style, he led the room full of guests in singing the song. Then he admitted, “I always thought if I could sing and if I had bouffant hair, I’d be a TV evangelist.”

Continuing in his legendary style, he confided that he had worried that he had lost his mojo for the acceptance speech. Then he realized that this was just like a sermon — all you have to do is make three points in 6 ½ minutes.

Sandra and Mark Craig and Ali W. Craig

Point #1: He was truly honored to receive the award with Bob Folsom’s name on it. Point #2: He thanked Event Co-Chairs Lana and Barry Andrews and Natalie and Mike McGuire, Jim Francis, the 15 SMU trustees in attendance, Gerald Turner and Mark’s wife Sandra. Mark thanked the former president for assisting in the adoption of the Craig daughter from China, adding that her name was Ali W. Craig. Point #3: He described the importance of Methodist Hospital, “because it looks south and has never left the south. That’s where the pain and suffering are. It’s been there for 85 years.”

In closing, he revealed that “I retired because I ran out of sermons. Everyone runs out of sermons but (some) don’t know it.” Looking out on the audience, he thanked all ,saying, “The right kind of men and women (are here). . . loving, generous, sacrificial.”

Dean Fearing and choir members

With that Mark joined the head table, Dean returned to the podium, and the stage was filled to capacity with a rousing choir performance to close the evening.

Jim Francis and George W. Bush

With all the surprises popping up, it was no wonder that Jim Francis had a huge smile on his face.

Lauren Embrey, Sarah Losinger, Mira Sorvino, Lynn McBee and Roslyn Dawson Thompson

The “Just In’s” are flowing in today! And we wonder why we’re so far behind schedule? But good news just can’t wait. Tuesday’s Dallas Women’s Foundation Luncheon at the Anatole had a mighty goal, but it also had a killer lineup of tri-chairs (Lauren Embrey, Sarah Losinger and Lynn McBee), honorary chair (Caren Prothro), speaker (Mira Sorvino), honoree (Kalita Beck Blessing) and a SRO audience.

The goal was the big $1M mark.

Yahoo! The goal was met.

More about the lunch in the days ahead, but did want you to have a feel-good moment.

Kim Bannister (File photo)

There’s something about Heroes for Children that once you get involved, you can’t stop. That was the case for Kim and Nevin Bannister. Here Kim chaired this year’s Heroes and Handbags and she signed up again. But this time she officially included husband Nevin. No, they’re not going to hold a fall version of Handbags. The Bannisters are co-chairing the 7^th Annual Hold’Em for Heroes.

The three-hour poker tournament will be held on Tuesday, October 29, at the Dallas Country Club. The $250 ticket includes the first set of game chips, hors d’oeuvres and cocktails. The 10 winners will choose between a variety of prizes.

Alas, one of those prizes doesn’t include the Harry Winston Hope Collection Bracelet. Dang! Oh, you haven’t heard about this nifty bauble? Well, it seems that Harry Winston Inc. has created a limited edition bracelet featuring “a sleek white gold and engraved mother-of-pearl design set with a delicate Winston diamond at the center.” Now, comes the yummy frosting on the cupcake. Retailing for $2,500, the Harry Winston team is donating 100% of the price to Heroes for Children.

This type of giving shouldn’t surprise anyone. The late Harry himself started the company’s emphasis on supporting nonprofits. From 1949 to 1953, his “The Court of Jewels” toured cities to raise money for local charities. The headliner in the exhibition was the 45.52-carat Hope Diamond. And where is the Hope nowadays? No, it won’t be at Hold’Em For Heroes. It will be at the Smithsonian Institution, where it has resided since 1958 when Harry donated it for the legendary museum.

Musicians at the Crow Collection entrance

Instead of a brass band to welcome guests at the October 4^th gala celebrating the new sculpture garden at the Crow Collection of Asian Art, it was an elegant band of Chinese musicians. They were stationed between the valet parkers and the fountain with oranges bobbing in the water.

So beautiful that Lucy Billingsley grabbed a couple of shots of them.

Up the steps of the Trammell Crow Center, the guests discovered the magnificent ancient and modern sculptures serenely placed beautifully amid the downtown business district.

Adhering to host Trammell S. “Sandy” Crow’s request that guests either don black tie or appropriate costume, they took their host for his word despite the humidity of the evening weather.

As Sandy wiped his brow, he managed to make each guest feel as if they were numero uno.

Terrell and Jim Falk

Barbara Crow and Trammell S. Crow

While Terrell Falk worn a beautiful blue robe, husband/DFW World Affairs Council President/CEO Jim Falk got into equal finery. . . the southern part that is. . . like India.

The twosome were so cool in their light fabric ensembles. BTW, Jim’s DFW World Affairs will be hosting the 30^th H. Neil Mallon Award Dinner on Friday, October 25, honoring Lucy (aka Trammell’s sis).

And speaking of Trammell’s relatives, ex-wife Barbara Crow was on the scene. These two are the poster children for civilized ex-es. They were both delighted about son Nathan’s engagement to Itzel Castillo. It seems the twosome who have dated for seven years since they met at the Crow Collection, are planning on a spring wedding.

Itzel Castillo and Nathan Crow

Barbara laughed that as the mother of the bridegroom, all she has to do is “be pleasant.”

Other fashion snapshots included Barbara Daseke in a silk chiffon skirt with painted Japanese characters. She wore a Tibetan ivory broach on a jade beaded necklace. Husband Don wasn’t to be outdone. He sported a Zegna tuxedo and a tie of black silk with dragons designed by Mimi Fong.

Xu Erwen

As statuesque John Clutts models (Sirisha Reddy, Claire Elizabeth, Renee Austin and Sierra Loren) modeled Asian fashions from Silk Threads, People’s Republic of China Consul Xu Erwen reported that the Crow collection “has done a lot to promote cultural exchange between China and the U.S., and we appreciate very much this contribution. They are a good friend of China.”

After a two-hour cocktail reception, guests headed to the tables for a Stephan Pyles dinner. Unfortunately, some of the guests couldn’t hang around. By 10 p.m. some like Laree Hulshoff and Ben Fischer were tired of waiting for their meal and headed home.

Reunion Tower Flashes Back

Nancy Ann Hunt

Chris Kleinert and Ray Hunt

While the Chinese beauty of the Crow Collection sculpture garden was nestled nicely at the Trammell Crow Center, the Ray Hunt clan was celebrating the revitalization of Reunion Tower.

After a mega-undertaking to “refresh” the Dallas landmark, Nancy Ann and Ray Hunt along with daughter Ashlee and son-in-law Chris Kleinert hosted a dessert party on the grounds near the tower.

Jeanne Phillips

As guests from an earlier private dinner, like Harriet Miers, Gary Coghill, Jan and Steve Langbein, Linda and Bill Custard and Sheila and Jody Grant, were bussed to the site, Jeanne Phillips proved her reputation as a perfect hostess was well intact. The champagne flowed and desserts abounded. Guests prepared for the big highlight — fireworks surrounding the internationally recognized orb atop the tower.

Taking their seats right on cue, the guests were like little kids attending their first Fourth of July. Pete Schenkel and Jerry Ford chatted.

Before going dark

Going dark for Reunion Tower’s fireworks

Then for the first time since it opened, the Omni Dallas Hotel went dark. The fireworks exploded atop the tower. Anita and Jim Oberwetter waved red, white and blue glo-sticks to the music.

With true-blue, all-American music selected by Jeanne and Chris, the tower exploded with colors and lightning that even Mother Nature envied.

Harold and Annette Simmons (File photo)

It may be just a tad bit early to pop open a bottle of champagne, but there’s good reason to. For the seventh time, Annette and Harold Simmons have presented a $1M check to Crystal Charity Ball’s fundraising efforts for Dallas-area children’s charities.

According to CCB Chair Caren Kline, “Annette and Harold Simmons’ continued support inspires Crystal Charity Ball donors at all levels. This gift is also an inspiration for the committee members who are raising money for our eight outstanding beneficiaries.”

The 2013 beneficiaries include

• Educational First Steps
• Good Street Learning Center, Inc.
• Network of Community Ministries
• New Friends New Life
• Parkland Foundation
• Suicide & Crisis Center of North Texas
• Texas Scottish Rite Hospital for Children and
• YMCA of Metropolitan Dallas.

To provide for the beneficiaries’ requests, a whopping $4.7M must be raised by the 2013 CCB. Over the past 60 years, CCB has consistently come through for countless organizations with more than $110M.

“Harold and I believe the Crystal Charity Ball committee does an excellent job of researching and identifying the most worthwhile children’s charities each year,” said Annette. “We know they are great stewards of gifts at all levels.”

Let’s get out our best Crane stationery for this thank you note!

As bad as traffic was in the Arts District Thursday night, it had spread like melted butter over pancakes, just not as tasty.

No matter how well-planned, no route worked Friday, October 18. Thanks to closed streets due to the Aurora project and the vehicle lights, downtown Dallas looked like a splashy volcano with streams of red lights.

That was the numero uno topic at the Nasher XChange gala in The Joule ballroom. Yes, once guests pulled up to the valet, they were directed to the express elevator that took them directly to the second-floor ballroom. But before reaching this very special celebration, they had to maneuver their way with dexterity and patience to get there. Even Nasher Director of External Affairs Jill Magnuson admitted using a cab to get there from the Nasher Sculpture Center. And Mayor Mike Rawlings wished out loud, “I don’t know whether to complain to the mayor, or pat him on the back.”

Nasher Associate Director of Media Relations Kristen Gibbins admitted that in selecting the date, the Nasher team had taken on a real challenge. In addition to the XChange gala in honor of the Nasher Sculpture Center’s 10^th anniversary, there was also the final ‘til Midnight at the Nasher for the season along with Aurora and the next morning’s Komen Race for the Cure at NorthPark.

Allison V. Smith

Rusty Rose

Howard and Fanchon Hallam and Howard Rachofsky

Kelli and Allen Questrom

But Friday night at The Joule was a true come together for those 250 Nasher friends and supporters (Deedie and Rusty Rose, Jennifer and John Eagle, Cindy and Howard Rachofsky, Mary McDermott Cook and Dan Patterson, Mary Jalonick, Rena Pedersen, Holly Haber, Terri Provencal, Margaret McDermott, Kelli and Allen Questrom, Allison V. Smith and Barry Whistler) and the artists (Lara Almarcegui, Good/Bad Art Collective, Rachel Harrison, Alfredo Jaar, Liz Larner, Charles Long, Rick Lowe, Vicki Meek, Ruben Ochoa and Ugo Rondinone), who contributed the ten projects that have sprung up around Dallas to commemorate the anniversary.

Emery Martin and Kerstin Hovland

Talk of the guests in the lobby included NorthPark General Manager Billy Hines telling how earlier in the day one of the art pieces, “Fountainhead,” a virtual fountain that allows people to donate $1, $3 or $5 to three charities, had been installed in NP’s South Court. The fountain works electronically and was amazing thanks to Los Angeles techies Emery Martin and Kerstin Hovland . . Dallas Film Society’s Lee Papert talking about Lee Daniels being the featured guest at the upcoming November 8th Art of Film. . . Ruth Robinson with a natty jade-colored cane in one hand and on the arm of Nasher board chair Stephen Stamas. Ruth had just returned from a trip to Europe and Australia. . . Matthew Simons in white ruffle tuxedo shirt and electric blue velvet evening jacket was looking right at home at The Joule. Just a few days before he had left Neiman’s downtown couture salon to join up with the Headington retail group as its general manager. . . Michelle Wood, who had lived in Las Colinas for three years, had moved to the Vickery Meadow area and has become a “housemother” to a group of artisans from Iraq, who had been involved with Rick Lowe’s XChange projects. In Michelle’s group of talented Iraqis were paper-flower artist Sahra Mohammed and famed artist Ameer Alwan, who fled Iraq in 2004.

Sahra Mohammed and Michelle Wood

Just as the lobby was spilling over with guests, the doors opened to the ballroom for a seated dinner and very brief remarks. At 8:35 Nancy Nasher described the Nasher Sculpture Center as “a one-of-a-kind,” located in a great building with a garden that’s an integral part of it. Recognizing city officials Philip Kingston, Tennell Atkins and Mayor Mike, Nancy added that Rawlings had brought his daughter/artist Michelle Rawlings.

After just coming from the Aurora launch, a tieless Mayor Mike told the group, “The Nasher Sculpture Center continues to be a shining light for Dallas.” He then talked about how the crowds filling the downtown streets might make you think you’re “in Vienna or Barcelona!” A woman in the back of the room shouted out: “Dallas!”

He then recalled a conversation with Margaret Hunt Hill Bridge designer Santiago Calatrava. The mayor told Calatrava that compared to the great cities of Europe, Dallas was only 150 years old. Calatrava responded, “That’s the good news, because you are building a city for centuries to come.”

Following dinner (Homestead Farms farro tabouleh with dehydrated tomato and latte da dairy yogurt lemon hummus; halibut with spicers creek braised beans, heirloom carrots and parsnip puree; and Texas pear pumpkin cobbler with almond crumble and horchata ice cream), Nasher Sculpture Center Director Jeremy Strick told how photographer Allison V. Smith had been documenting the collection. He then went on to introduce each of the artists. Well, he introduced eight of them. Just as the eighth team sat down and he asked for all to join him in applauding the artists’ contributions, a flash shout came from a table in the back of the room — “Rick! Rick!” Smiling, Jeremy realized that he still needed to introduce Rick Lowe’s pop-up market places in Vickery Meadows. Everyone laughed as Jeremy recovered and Rick stood, waving for the rest of the Vickery Meadows representatives to stand, too.

Jeremy paused. Another flash shout arose from another table — “Liz! Liz!” Leaning on the podium, Jeremy planted his chin in his hand and smiled, acknowledging that Liz Larner hadn’t been recognized. Everyone laughed with Jeremy as he recognized the California sculptor. As she stood, Liz blew a kiss to Jeremy.

He then asked, “Anyone else?” Everyone combined laugher with hands coming together. Laughter, art and friends are the perfect recipe, don’t you know?

After a brief video, guests congratulated the Nasher team on their anniversary and talked with the artists whose works will be on display throughout the city until Sunday, February 16.

Tony Tasset’s “Eye”

Departure

With Dallas’ version of Gatsby’s Owl-Eyed Man watching from across the street, guests returned to the sidewalk outside the Joule to get their cars and head home.

Lindalyn Adams was a very busy lady the week of October 21. Tuesday she attended the Celebrating Women patron party at Lisa and Kenny Troutt‘s estate. Wednesday at the Celebrating Women luncheon at the Hilton Anatole she was recognized by her Baylor Health Care System Foundation boss Robin Robinson at being responsible for naming the Celebrating Women lunch, which she denied. Thursday she was back at the Anatole, where she was presented the Lifetime Achievement Award by the Girl Scouts of Northeast Texas at the annual Women of Distinction luncheon. And each day her faithful hairdresser, Fred Stucke, refreshed her hair. They’ve been together longer than most marriages, so he wasn’t going to let Lindalyn look less than perfect.

Angela Randall, Fredye Factor and Lindalyn Adams

It was truly a three-day Dallas lovefest for the 83-year-young lady, who is embarrassed by all the attention. But before she received her award, there were others who were being honored at the luncheon chaired by the Kadesky gals (Angie, Ann and Kimber) and the room filled with area leaders including the Perot ladies (Margot, Suzanne, Katherine and Carolyn), Fredye Factor, Jennifer Sampson, Robyn Conlon, Gillian Breidenbach, Sally Hoglund, Kelly Compton, Paige Baden Locke and Karen Shuford).

Clarice Tinsley, Millie Bradley, Alexandra Villareal and Colleen Walker

First up for accolades were the two Young Women of Distinction — Grace Charlotte Cooper and Alexandra Villareal, who showed through their brief talks how Girl Scouts has already instilled the ability to talk to a large crowd as well as accomplishment.

Jennifer Sampson and Nicole Small

Sadie Small

Next up was Nicole Ginsburg Small, who accepted the Women of Distinction Award with daughter Sadie wearing her Girl Scouts sash over her dress, seated proudly at her table. Former Brownie Nicole told how her mother advised “to pick out what you love and go for it.” She led the audience in a pledge: “Being a girl is great! Girls are good at math! And being a Girl Scout is awesome!” They dutifully complied. In concluding her talk, Nicole emphasized the importance of young women focusing on math. That comment got a “thumbs up” from Girl Scouts of Northeast Texas’s Colleen Walker.

Lindalyn Adams and Eddie Mullens

Then it was time for Lindalyn to receive the Lifetime Achievement Award. With cane in her right hand and Girl Scouts of Northeast Texas’ Eddie Mullens escorting her on the left, she entered the stage to a standing room only. Shoot! Most folks would have just taken a bow, grabbed the award, posed for a photo and been off. Not Lindalyn. With the graciousness and self-deprecating humor that have made her one of Dallas’ great ladies, she acknowledged that she hadn’t been a Girl Scout, but wondered if it was too late to join up. Then the diminutive fundraiser proceeded to thank and recognize the many great organizations and people that have made Dallas outstanding —Baylor Health Care System, the Sixth Floor, the Dallas Historical Society, Old City Park, Friends of Fair Park, Park Cities Historic and Preservation Society, Ruth Altshuler, the medical wives and many others, including her sons and her late husband, Reuben, who “wore out two tuxedos in my chairman charity ball days.”

She concluded telling the group that she was pleased to learn that the lunch’s proceeds would benefit 35,000 girls in the program.

Colleen then announced that the Girl Scouts of Northeast Texas were on a campaign to raise $13M and had already achieved $3.7M. In addition, thanks to the Perot Foundation, the girls at the 1,400-acre Camp Bette Perot in Athens will have a new aquatic center this summer.

Camp Bette Perot Aquatic Center*

As a teaser, AT&T’s Cynthia Malone revealed that in the future there would be more news about the partnership between luncheon presenting sponsor AT&T and the Girl Scouts of Northeast Texas.

The luncheon itself raised more than $300K. They were still counting the donations.

Talia Leman

That would have been enough for most luncheons, but Colleen had arranged to have one of the country’s most outstanding Girl Scouts to top off the day — Talia Leman, CEO of RandomKid. If her name doesn’t quite hit the right brain cell, her accomplishments will. Thanks to her efforts as a 10-year-old in Waukee, Iowa, to rally young people, she raised more than $10M for Hurricane Katrina victims. While she collected recognition and awards, she wasn’t stopping with that project. In the years since, she has expanded RandomKid to assist 12M youths around the world in raising funds.

From her talk, it was obvious that she was an articulate and dynamic leader who did not recognize coming up short. Despite her youthful appearance with her green scarf, her voice conveyed a feeling of confidence. She told how the creation of RandomKid had allowed her to be a “witness to this greatness in others that I never could have foreseen. It just happened. Which is a very scary realization. Because that greatness happened by accident. It happened by surprise. Its greatness was not a carefully orchestrated sequence of events.”

So, she discussed “how can we do something greater than we know how to do and become something greater than we know how to be.”

First off, she surprised some by saying that “luck” was an important factor. Then Talia launched into a story about 9-year-old Katie Stagliano, who grew a 40-pound cabbage and fed 275 people in a homeless shelter. That project grew into Katie’s coordinating organic gardens in 21 states for homeless shelters and her becoming the youngest recipient of the Clinton Global Citizen Award.

Then she told about 15-year-old Travis Price, who “learned about the power of belief.” It seems that on his first day of high school he noticed a boy being bullied for wearing a pink polo shirt. So the next day Travis not only wore a pink shirt, he and a friend went to a thrift shop and bought 50 and gave them to his friends. Then he texted friends and put it on his Facebook page. The following day Travis showed up at school and 700 kids were wearing pink. The bully was never heard from again. However, Travis’s project turned into “Pink Shirt Day” that now takes place on six continents to take a stand against bullying.

The third story involved a 21-year-old Waleed Rashed, who wanted to start a revolution in his country. Step one — he gathered a dozen friends to help him out. Step two — get people to protest at the same place at the same time. Since it was a poor area, getting the word out was going to be difficult, so he and his friends “decided to pull a little prank.” In public places they got on their cell phones, just loud enough for others to overhear about a stealth project — a revolution in the city that was going to take place on January 25. People overheard and shared the supposed not-to-be shared news.  When the date occurred, 2 million people showed up. “They came to see the revolution and in turn became the revolution.” It was January 25, 2011, in Egypt’s Tahrir Square.

According to Talia, the common thread in all three stories was, “Luck is everywhere that we are. Belief doesn’t require a rhyme or a reason. That everything begins with nothing. And listen carefully, that we don’t need to line up our ducks because the best plans actually emerge. That square peg can fit in a round hole because its flexibility that makes things happen. And the best place for any cart is ahead of the horse, because your dreams should always lead you.”

* Graphic provided by the Girl Scouts of Northeast Texas

Leave it to Janelle and Larry Friedman to hit it out of the ballpark—again. A couple of year ago, they orchestrated a Children’s Medical Center benefit. The CMC folks were so impressed with their efforts, they came a-calling for the Friedmans to put together an event for the CMC’s 100^th anniversary.

Janelle and Larry Friedman

Talk about tantalizing! But they weren’t going to just have a birthday cake and party favors. No, siree. The Friedmans went for it like a freshman cheerleader after a senior quarterback. Children’s had been vital in the lives of one of their children and the Friedmans were committed to payback in a very good way. They wouldn’t just throw a party. It would be an extravaganza for the Dallas jaw-dropping record books — “Celebrating Our Century”.

On Saturday, November 2, they delivered with just a couple of hiccups. But more about those later.

Vehicles arriving amid balloons

From the curb it was obvious that something was definitely up at the Omni Dallas Hotel. Mammoth white balloons with “100″ on them lined the driveway. As guests handed their cars over to the valet, there was a student drum corp setting an upbeat tempo.

Drum corp

From ground floor to the third floor, CMC seemed to be everywhere. Check-in took place on the ground level right as guests arrived. Instead of the usual rectangular tables with tablecloths and guests having to look down at those checking them in, there was a very professional, hotel-style registration Very smart. This allowed guests to get that registration stuff over with instantly and eliminated the need for tacky old check-in tables in the third-floor lobby.

Guest check-in

Welcome wall

After a ride up the escalators, guests were welcomed by a pink and purple light wall that said, “Celebration of Our Century” behind a glittering netted screen. Making a U-turn they entered a whimsical wonderland of pink and purple lit walls highlighted by tree limbs coated with white and silver. On the right were seven tiers of champagne flutes on a table with Jeroboams of Moet & Chandon ready for pouring. At the far end of the lobby was MASS Ensemble’s Katie Boeck playing the Earth Harp.

MASS Ensemble’s Katie Boeck

Over in a corner of the lobby was a velvet roped-off area. That was the scene of one of the hiccups. It was for the VIP meet and greet with the Pointer Sisters. When the trio arrived, the line had already formed. Guests were there; sisters were there. Only things missing were lighting—and a photographer. Not to worry. Guests were flexible and high tech. When they realized they were on their own, the guests pulled out smartphones and created a buddy system to record the grip-and-grin.

Kern and Marnie Wildenthal and Pam and Paul Southern

Alan and Sarah Losinger

Cyndi Bassel, Ross and Margot Perot

Susan and Joel Williams III

June McGuire, Bill and Kandis Hutchinson and Pete McGuire

Kathleen and Robert Gibson

As for the collection of 900 guests throughout the lobby, it was an interesting mix — politicos (Pete Sessions, Chart Westcott and Joel Williams III), socialites (Claire and Dwight Emanuelson, Sarah and Alan Losinger, Connie and Chris O’Neill, Claire and Dwight Emanuelson, Emilynn and Claude Wilson), nonprofit types (Brent Christopher, Kathleen and Robert Gibson, Jennifer Sampson, Marnie and Kern Wildenthal) and heavy hitters (Kathy and Richard Holt, Kandis and Bill Hutchinson, June and Pete McGuire, Margot and Ross Perot, Lynore and Robbie Robinson and Jimmy and Carl Westcott). They were all looking good and feeling better.

Janelle Friedman

Visiting with one and all were the Friedmans. Janelle, who had had back surgery two weeks before, was leaning on a custom-made crystal-laden cane and wearing a form-fitting red Oscar gown. No way an off-track back was going to keep her away. She claimed she was going to be on hand even if they had to bring her in on a stretcher. Like a wise husband, Larry knew his place. In honor of CMC’s red, he sported a red bowtie, socks and even underwear. . . or, at least, that’s what he said.

Dallas Ballroom

As the ballroom doors opened, mouths dropped. While some guests were as familiar with the Dallas Ballroom as their own home, they still weren’t prepared for what lay before them. Nowhere was the usual ballroom, except for the carpet—and who looked down? Across the far back of the room were fabulous light-blue walls surrounding a multi-tiered white stage. Across the way was a production platform that would have impressed Steven Spielberg. One Omni staffer looked at it in awe. Throughout the ballroom were tables of all types, shapes, sizes and décor. Some tabletops were like light boxes; chairs were dressed in a variety of fabrics ranging from glittery covers to elegant woven fabrics. The light around the room was a show in itself.

Dinner table

Even the table setting screamed “WOW!” Butter pats were in the shape of CMC’s red balloons on strings. At one table the confusion of the butter was so great that one man dabbed his finger across the “balloon” and reported, “It is butter.”

Initially the guests took their seats for a hearty four-course feast. But it was soon discovered that dining was going to be leisurely, to say the least, with 20 minutes between courses. On the good side, this time-out allowed for table-hopping, which this group did like youthful kangaroos. On the darn-it side, it resulted in a very extended night.

To get things going, a sponsor tribute video featuring “patient hosts” Ed Brady and Natalie Burraston was presented with a big old tip o’ the hat to million-dollar sponsor Alliance Data. It was a very clever way to reveal the event’s sponsors. So clever that 2013 Crystal Charity Ball Chair Caren Kline smiled in amazement. It ended with Ed being a “talk show” host interviewing CMC President/CEO Chris Durovich. After a thank you by the Friedmans (Larry: “This is just like my house. When my wife is done, there’s nothing left to say”) and an elaborate dance presentation filling the stage with professional dancers and children with red balloons, Chris told how CMC is the fifth-largest pediatric hospital in the U.S. and served 200K children last year.

Starlight Orchestra from New York

Guests had hardly had time to resume their table-hopping/dining when Starlight Orchestra from New York got the entertainment kicked off. They must have been fueled with Red Bull. Gyrating like metal detectors at a coin show, they bumped, bounced and blew everyone away.

Nicole Blue and Carmine Achtman

Carol Aaron

Nicole Blue and her buddy Carmine Achtman were so caught up with the moment, they joined the troupe on stage. Soon they were joined by a gent in a red plaid dinner jacket. As Nicole bounced hips with a female member of the ensemble, Carmine saw something in the audience that caused her to pause. She quickly signaled Nicole that it was time to return to their seats. Someone noted seeing Nicole’s mom, Carol Aaron. Standing in the middle of the ballroom, the diminutive brunette with blue eyes looked fabulous in a black Escada blouse. She also looked like an unhappy-camper parent waiting for an errant teenager past curfew. As Nicole and Carmine decided their stage appearance was done for the night, Tony Miller, who was seated nearby, hopped up and offered his hand to the ladies as they made their way down the stairs in their long gowns.

The Pointer Sisters

Guests at the base of the stage

For those who held out till 11, the wait was well worth it. The Pointer Sisters didn’t just take the stage, they stole it with a vengeance. Songs that rose to the top of the charts in the 70’s “jumped” the room’s energy to new highs. Pretty soon the base of the stage was filled with guests videotaping and bouncing like the Sisters.

Jennifer Hudson

But it was starting to get a bit late and, by the time the Sisters finished at 11:25 p.m., some guests were satisfied with their partying ways and headed home. Others stood their ground waiting to hear Academy Award winner Jennifer Hudson.

With her new pixie haircut and svelte figure, Jennifer took her place on stage just before midnight. While it had been a long day (she had quietly visited the CMC patients in the afternoon and requested no media coverage), Jennifer amazed the guests. When she sang “Hallelujah,” she could have just closed down shop and called it a day, but she continued on, providing everyone with sweet dreams of the night.

Yes, it was a century since the first baby camp in the Southwest opened and eventually became Children’s Medical Center. And over the past 100 years, 5M children have been treated. With the money raised by the Friedmans’ undertaking and support by sponsors like Alliance Data, the next 100 years is off to a good start. Happy birthday to Children’s and the children they have served and will serve.

For more photos, check the MySweetCharity Photo Gallery!

The streets were wet and the temperatures were flirting with the lower part of thermometers to get those furs out of storage Tuesday, November 5. While some headed to Harlan Crow’s library for the Sons of the Flag reception, others were valet-parking in front of the Joule to visit the Traffic LA three bears — his, hers and everybody’s boutiques — that Matthew Simon is overseeing with a twinkle in his eye and his clientele billing and cooing.

Jan and Trevor Rees-Jones and Kay Bailey Hutchison

On the other hand, hundreds were at the Ritz-Carlton for Dallas CASA’s “Champions for Children” dinner. There was a VIP reception for honorees Jan and Trevor Rees-Jones in the Oak and Cedar rooms, but it seemed to just be an extension of the main reception in the lobby. Nobody was ID-ed or turned away. Rather the honorees greeted all like old buds, including Senator Kay Bailey Hutchison. While Trevor excused himself to get a beer before heading into the ballroom, Jan graciously accepted congratulations with a beauty queen smile.

Jan Rees-Jones

After the doors to the ballroom opened, the crowd of volunteers, supporters and judges with medals on red, white and blue necklaces continued the cocktail conversation inside.

Woody McMinn, Scott and Paula Orr, Jay and Vickie Utley and Mindy McMinn

When the guests including John Wiley Price, Debbie and Nickey Oates, Kay Bailey Hutchison, Billie Leigh Rippey, Marla and Mike Boone, Christie Carter, Sarah Losinger, Mindy and Woody McMinn, Paul and Jay Utley and Marnie and Kern Wildenthal finally took their seats and the program got underway, Event Co-Chairs Robin and Bill Smith welcomed the audience and introduced CASA Board of Directors Chair Mark Berg, who hinted that big plans would be announced later. He then introduced Kay B.H., who said that she was indeed honored to be part of the dinner presenting the Judge Barefoot Sanders Champions for Children Award to the Rees-Joneses. She told how when she was in the Senate, they were able to “find a little money — not as much as Trevor and Jan have been able to do! — for this great organization [CASA] to start chapters around the country.” Kay added, “It’s not like they [Jan and Trevor] were given everything. They worked so hard for everything and made strategic decisions to give back.”

At dinner tables the conversation was on the occasion and the CASA mission. Dallas County Truancy Court magistrate Larry Rayford described his handling of youngsters who come before him. He asks, “What’s going on?” For some kids, this opens up the reason they’ve missed school. It may be family problems, their own frustrations with school or a problems that can be handled in better ways than having the book thrown at them. Having grown up in the projects of Detroit, Larry appreciates the challenges of youngsters, especially 15-, 16- and 17-year olds.

Young man and his CASA

Following dinner and a video spotlighting the work done by the advocacy volunteers, one of the young people whose life had made a dramatic change thanks to his advocate stepped up to the podium with “his CASA.” Brushing away tears, he thanked those in attendance for providing the CASA program and his CASA. As the young man left with his CASA’s arm around him, the audience responded to his thank-you with a standing ovation.

CASA Executive Director/President Beverly Levy then recalled when Jan found out about the extent of child abuse and neglect taking place, she said, “I understand. But where is the outrage?” Beverly announced that CASA’s goal was to have an advocate for every child in the area that needs one by 2020 adding, “What are we waiting for?”

Trevor and Jan Rees-Jones and Beverly Levy

She then presented the Champions for Children award to the Rees-Joneses, who have provided major funding for area children’s programs. With his deep Texas accented voice, Trevor admitted total disgust at the “heinous” crimes against children with which CASA deals. Looking out into the audience, he said, “We thank you so much. We can’t thank you enough. We want to thank you for all you do.” He continued saying, “We define ourselves as a people and society by how we respond to those with very tragic circumstances, the most vulnerable among us, who have every right to believe that their parents will take care of them and protect them. When that fails, we have a responsibility to step up and help them recover.”

It was a brief acceptance speech, but it was on target with strength.

Campaign for Dallas CASA Chair Jim Lozier then announced the launch of a capital campaign for $37M. While some in the audience took a deep breath trying to get their arms around that number, Jim explained why this money was so important. In 2013 CASA served 1,750 kids, about 40% of those who needed CASA. They’re projecting that by 2018 they will need to double their capacity to handle 3,500 children. By 2019, they hope to serve 100% of kids who need them. To do this, they have to do more than double the number of volunteers from 700 to 1,400 and their resources. This will cost $78M over the next 10 years; $41M of that will be generated “naturally,” organically.

Still the shock of the $37M! To the relief of most in the room, Jim said they had already raised $30M of it.  An anonymous foundation had offered CASA $10M as a matching challenge. Thanks to $1M gifts from Pioneer Natural Resources and the Annette and Harold Simmons Foundation; a $7.5M commitment over the next five years from the Rees-Jones Foundation; gifts totaling $400K from others; and an additional $2.5M raised by the board, the challenge was met.

In the months ahead, the focus would be on raising the remaining $7M.

Sarah Losinger and Christie Carter

In the meantime, thanks to the CASA underwriting committee (Robin and Bill, Greg May, Scott Orr, Mark S. Berg, Christie Carter and Linda Swartz), the evening raised $435,000 for its “general operating fund to recruit, train and supervise volunteers, who are voices in court for abused children.”

Yes, it was a lot to absorb, but it was all good news.

Coffee and hot chocolate bar

Table of sweet to-go and rubber duckies

A tip o’ the hat to event organizers: As guests headed for the valet, they discovered a roped-off area to queue up for their vehicles. While the line extended around the room, there was an oasis along the way. In addition to a couple of coffee bars complete with the most delicious hot chocolate, there was a table filled with sweets, complete with to-go boxes and CASA rubber duckies. Perfect for waiting in line and munching on the way home. Sure, there was a wait for cars, but the pain was a lot less thanks to a hospitable sweet touch.

With the 50^th anniversary of the death of President John F. Kennedy approaching, Dallas will have many  visitors in town as well as the national spotlight. For those who choose to claim Dallas should wear a scarlet letter for the crime committed five decades ago, there is no argument that can dissuade them.

However, it will be the present Dallas on which much of the focus will be placed. Just be yourselves — accommodating, gracious and understanding. You have helped make Dallas the city that is one of the country’s leading philanthropic centers, built outstanding facilities (the AT&T Performing Arts Center, Perot Museum, Margaret Hunt Hill Bridge, Klyde Warren Park, Bush Center), grown incredible educational institutions, established world-class health care facilities and is striving to help those in need thanks to the North Texas Food Bank, the Bridge, Community Partners of Dallas and countless others.

Be proud of the city that you have built and work every day to improve. The past cannot be undone, but the present and future offer great opportunities to make a difference for good.

Ah, those delicious homes in the Preston Hollow hood and close cuzzins. They have everything but curbs. That was the case on Wednesday, November 13.

Crystal Charity Wrap-Up Luncheon

With their legendary gala less than a month away, the ladies of Crystal Charity Ball held their annual wrap-up luncheon at Mercury courtesy of Northern Trust. It allows those who went way beyond the call of duty to be recognized. The top ten in solicitation of funds receive a charm from Lyles-DeGrazier. The top money raiser receives a gold one, while the remaining nine get silver.

The one who raised the biggest, “OMG, did you hear that?” was the member who raised $560,000 — Michal Powell, who just so happens to be chairing the 2015 CCB.

And then there were those who scored accolades in more than one category, like Lynn McBee and Carol Seay.

Great Adventure Hunt Kick-Off

Years ago Kit and Kemp Sawers talked their buds Diane and Daryl Johnson into joining their team for the Great Adventure Hunt benefiting ChildCareGroup. One of the Johnstons questioned their friends’ choice of teammates for this puzzle-oriented game — a model and a jock? Silly! When it comes to a twosome that is not only gorgeous but smart as a Jeopardy finalist, then the Johnstons are at the top of the list.

The Johnstons got hooked on the game playing event. So much so that they along with the Sawers and fellow teammates Amanda and Byron Neuhoff are co-chairing the February 8 fundraiser sponsored by Alliance Data. To get things going, the Johnstons hosted the kick-off party sponsored by Bank of Texas at their PH home with a perfect fireplace blazing on this chilly night. Why, even the bartender taking care of the drinks next to the pool and spa had a patio heater to keep him company.

But this wasn’t just any kick-off party. No, it was more like a reveal, since major changes were announced. For instance, the 2014 games will take over the Joule Hotel with clues. Another change is the emcee. It will be WFAA morning cup-of-coffee Ron Corning.

Still another change in the POA is the puzzle master. The brain teasers will be the handiwork of Tom Shroder, the Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist, who, along with Dave Berry and Gene Weingarten, orchestrated the hunts in Miami and Washington, D.C.

The word at the party is that 2013 champs Thompson & Knight Foundation are determined to maintain their standing. According to Kit, “We think this year’s Hunt will be the best yet, and we encourage new participants to come out for a fun night that supports ChildCareGroup’s quality, educational child care programs benefiting the youngest and neediest citizens of Dallas County.”

The event is limited to 240 contestants (aka 40 teams) and their goal is to raise $200,000 for ChildCareGroup, so put your team together. Hey, here’s a thought — Why not book a room at the Joule for February 8, so you don’t even have to worry about the drive home and you can enjoy room service Sunday morning?

Trains Of NorthPark Patron Party

Karen Seanor all in black sat on the couch in her PH mansion. She looked around the rooms of guests and admitted that while she hadn’t known much about the Ronald McDonald House’s folks, she was mighty impressed with what she saw.

The occasion was the patron party for the Ronald McDonald House of Dallas’ Trains at NorthPark, and the crowd was sleek.

Ronald McDonald House of Dallas CEO Jill Cumnock reported that the 26^th annual miniature train extravaganza had some changes in store. . . literally. Instead of being adjacent to the old Barney’s location on the upper level between Nordstrom and Neiman’s, the trains would be chugging merrily across the way. According to Jill, these new digs will have white carpeting that will add to the wintry holiday feel.

Presented by Bank of Texas, the trains start their choo-chooing Saturday, November 23, and will continue to breeze through the most amazing scenes until Sunday, January 5. Even if you don’t have a munchkin, this ever-active 4,000-square-foot exhibition is one for kids of all ages, plus it benefits the Ronald McDonald House.

Oh, those screens. Those mammoth screens that are such lifesavers at event. They’re also tricky dudes. But more about that later.

While the media blackout was in full force on Friday, November 15, at The Salvation Army’s “Doing the Most Good Luncheon” at the Anatole, the folks who work year-round for the good of fundraising were celebrating and honoring their heroes/heroines at the National Philanthropy Day Luncheon at the Hyatt Regency.

National Philanthropy Day Awards

Sponsored by the Association of Fundraising Professionals Greater Dallas Chapter, this lunch runs like a watch wishes it did. It’s largely due to recipients acknowledging their honor via videotaped acceptance speeches courtesy of KERA; there are no long-winded talks. But it may also be the fact that these folks have attended so many fundraisers, they just know the pro’s and con’s of a successful luncheon event — keep it short and sweet.

Kimberly Humphries and Diane Brierley

Luncheon Chair Kimberly Humphries and AFPGDC’s President Sue Bailey stayed true to the POA and pulled it off.

But before the meal and presentations of awards, there was the VIP reception underwritten by past recipients Diane and Hal Brierley in a nearby foyer. The camaraderie of this group is infectious. They’re in a city that has become nationally renowned for philanthropy. Sorta like hummingbirds at the Arboretum.

Following lunch (southern Caesar salad with ancho chili Caesar dressing, roasted sirloin of beef paired with achiote spiced chicken breast, wild rice orzo pasta and vegetable confetti and artisan breads), the awards were presented to the following:

• Kent Skipper, Forrest Hoglund, April Box Chamberlain, Ariana Luterman, Lyda Hill, Christina and Rudy Andrea and Jeff Morris

  Outstanding Philanthropist (sponsored by Clarkson Davis — Lyda Hill (nominated by Dallas Arboretum and Botanical Garden)

• Outstanding Volunteer Fundraiser (sponsored by Dini Partners) — Forrest Hoglund (nominated by Perot Museum of Nature and Science)
• Outstanding Foundation (sponsored by Children’s Medical Center) — The Andrea-Mennen Family Foundation
• Outstanding Corporation (sponsored by The Trinity Trust Foundation) — Alon USA Energy Inc. (nominated by Communities in Schools of the Dallas Region Inc.)
• Outstanding Fundraising Executive (sponsored by Nancy Ann Hunt) — April Box Chamberlain (nominated by Chairman of the Board of Trustees of Methodist Health System Foundation)
• Outstanding Youth in Philanthropy (sponsored by The Todd and Abby Williams Family Foundation) — Ariana Luterman (nominated by Brian Donovan)
• Special Recognition Award (sponsored by the Salesmanship Club of Dallas) — Kent Skipper (nominated by the Greater Dallas Chapter Association of Fundraising Professionals)

Allana and Zach Luterman and Ariana Luterman

Each of the video acceptances were gracious. But the scene-stealer was once again the Outstanding Youth In Philanthropy, 13-year-old triathlete Ariana. Perhaps it is because the ballroom is filled with veteran fundraisers who are impressed and inspired that such a young person has renewed their hope that the upcoming generation is already preparing to carry on the torch for their efforts. In this case, Ariana articulated her mission to help homeless children through Team Ariana. Her organization unites the sport of triathlon and focuses the national media spotlight on the growing challenge of homeless children in America from a child’s perspective.” Initially she had hoped to raise $25,000, but ended up with a total of $50,000, “which she donated entirely to Vogel Alcove.”

Following Ariana’s acceptance, emcee Scott Murray asked that Ariana’s folks — Allana and Zach Luterman — stand up.

And speaking of Scott, 2014 National Philanthropy Day Luncheon Chair Christina Moore-Salinas announced that because of his contributions and efforts to philanthropy, a contribution was being made to the Scott Murray Foundation.

The only hiccup . . . and it was a minor one. . . was the spotlight on one wall was off-center a bit, causing part of the screen on the right side of the stage to wash out. The good news is that the screen on the other side of the stage was perfect, so folks just had to move their eyeballs to the left for a perfect picture.

Even if you’re not a professional fundraiser, you can and should attend this luncheon. Consider putting the 2014 event on your calendar.

Terry and Robert Rowling and Kathleen Gibson

Billionaire Robert Rowling admitted that he was transformed when he and his wife Terry moved to Dallas 17 years ago. But more about that later.

The Charles Cameron Sprague Community Service Award Dinner is not known as a “stem-winder,” but that’s how Southwestern Medical Foundation Chairman of the Board Bill Solomon described the Monday, November 18^th event at the Hilton Anatole. The reason? Twice during the on-stage talks, the sign fastened to the podium literally fell off, causing laughter from the audience and the Anatole staffers to rush from the back of the Khmer Ballroom to replace it. After the second fall from place, Bill told the staff just to leave it be.

Falling sign with Bill Solomon at the podium

The importance of the night was to celebrate the outstanding people “who have provided significant support in areas related to the improvement of health care, medical education and research.”

First presentation of the evening was the not-often-given Cyndi Bassel Guardian Angel Award established by Margot and Ross Perot. Its purpose was “to recognize non-physicians in health fields who devote themselves, above and beyond the call of duty, to serving patients in exceptional ways.” It was presented to Children’s Medical Center Dallas VP/Executive Director of the Health and Wellness Alliance for Children Holly Hassmann. To say she was thrilled was an understatement as she thanked her family, friends, co-workers and the patients of Children’s.

Holly Hassmann

According to Holly, “A place is only as good as the people who are inside it. That has meant working closely with the wonderful staff at Children’s and doctors from UT Southwestern, and making sure that we have the highest quality services for the families.”

Following dinner, Bill officially welcomed the guests including Elaine Sprague, Dr. Cindy Hardesty, Carla Bass, Louise Eiseman with Betsy and Richard Eiseman, Jess Hay, Dee Simmons, Sara and David Martineau, James Huffines, Mary McDermott Cook, Gay Solomon, Sammye and Mike Myers and Kern and Marnie Wildenthal. He then introduced UT Southwestern Medical Center President Dr. Daniel Podolsky, who described UT Southwestern’s present accomplishments and its plans for the future.

It’s truly amazing to think of the extraordinary work that UT Southwestern has achieved since its creation as Southwestern Medical College by the Foundation in 1943.

Then Bill asked Foundation President Kathleen Gibson to announce the 2013 Charles Cameron Sprague Awardees — Linda and Mitch Hart and Terry and Robert Rowling.

Linda and Mitch Hart

Linda had all her children and brother and sister-in-law, who had traveled to Dallas for the event, stand. She told how the late Sadie and Charlie Seay had taught them to a lesson they never forgot — “to give while we can appreciate what our giving is doing and not wait until after we’re gone.” Linda eloquently thanked people like Margaret McDermott, Lyda Hill, Dr. Perry Gross, Dr. Kern Wildenthal, Dr. Dan Podolsky, Dr. Hugh McClung, Dr. Angela Shoup and Gerald Turner.

Terry started off by thanking the nominating committee and their family and friends, who were present. Then she took the opportunity to compliment her husband, “who is truly the community servant. The rest I was going to say is probably pretty obvious, but I believe my husband is very talented and he has worked very hard and has been faithful to use his gifts in both business and serving others. God has blessed us beyond measure in many ways for which we are very grateful. And I must say that Bob has been obedient to the scripture that says ‘From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded’ and I am very proud of him. Thank you so much for this award. We are truly honored to receive it.”

Robert and Terry Rowling

Bob followed saying that they had been told they had five minutes and Terry said she was going to use four of it. In his one minute, he humbly said they were relative newcomers to Dallas having only lived here 17 years and don’t feel like they’re in the same category as the past recipients of the Sprague Award. The former Corpus Christi resident admitted, “it wasn’t the thing to do [there] to really get involved and serve the community. And one of the things when we got here . . . uh, I don’t know if it surprised me or it was just educational. . .was how people valued public service and volunteering and building things and getting involved in the community. It was just transformational. All the time as I observed what’s going on in Dallas, I began to meet community leaders. They were people who loved this community. They were willing to give their time and their money. They were interested in seeing in this particular instance, UT Southwestern Medical Center grow and prosper. And as I observed them, I became friends with many of them. They were people like Edith and Peter O’Donnell, the McDermott family, Annette and Harold Simmons, the Perots, Boone Pickens. . .  who I knew before I moved here but when I saw what he was doing here, he educated me. . . Nancy and Ray Hunt, Lyda Hill, Bill and Gay and I could go on with the list of people. Numerous people who poured their hearts into growing not just the medical center but Dallas. I could go on and on . . . but I want to mention one more that Dr. Podolsky mentioned before. You know Gov. (Bill) Clements. When I was on the board of regents, he came to the board of regents and said, ‘I want to make a transformative gift to UT Southwestern Medical Center.” Bob recalled that in those days a lot of people were making gifts.

“The thing was unusual about Gov. Clements’ gift was he said he wanted it to be transformative, but it is also unrestricted. Whereas most people who were giving 30-, 40-, 50-million-dollar gifts, they wanted it to go to a specific area. And he gave that gift to this institution completely unrestricted which was so unusual. . . For me to watch these people pour their hearts and lives into this community was transformational. It was a real learning lesson and I’m still learning.”

He then told how one of the first people he met was (the late) Paul Bass, who was the Foundation’s board chairman. They ended up going on a golf trip in Tucson. Bob recalled that Paul ordered “a stack of bacon that high and he looked at me and said, ‘Bob, I just had heart surgery and I’m watching my cholesterol.” He eventually got Bob involved in the UT Southwestern.

As a final gesture of graciousness, Bob read excerpts from the obituary of Charlie Sprague, a man he never met but he respected and was humbled to receive an award named after him.

A Harold Simmons (File photo

The death of anyone is especially hard to bear around the holidays. It is with this in mind that we truly regret to report that philanthropist Harold Simmons died Saturday night.

Both Harold and his wife Annette have become synonymous with philanthropy through their donations and support of numerous nonprofits.

And while his blues eyes will no longer twinkle nor his smile brighten a room, his contributions to the North Texas charities and the thousands they benefit will live on.

Our deepest condolences are extended to his family, who only this past year also suffered the loss of Harold’s brother, Glenn Simmons.

UPDATE: Harold Simmons’ memorial service will take place at 2 p.m. on Thursday, January 2, at Park Cities Baptist Church.

That Lisa Blue Baron is a smart one. Each year she opens her fabulous Preston Hollow estate for a splashy party. Last year it was a poignant gathering. Yes, it celebrated Lisa’s 60th birthday and the launch of the Larry Hagman Foundation. Little did anyone guess that despite the Hagman smiles and charm, Larry would be dead weeks later. But Lisa’s gathering was indeed a celebration of philanthropy that would continue on beyond the Hagman fame.

This year the first inkling that party time was approaching was the “Save the Date” notice. It was more jaw-dropping that any invitation that the postal service had delivered this year. Weeks later the “STD” card was just a blip of the for-real invitation. Simply spectacular! And it was highlighted with hints of what was on the program — Styx and Journey would be on hand! Lisa delivered. But she did it her way.

Despite the frosty arctic cold that locked down Dallas the first weekend in December, she charged ahead with a strong, but gentle suggestion. Instead of gifts or thank-you-very-much notes, guests could donate to Vogel Alcove.

As guests arrived, golf carts and mini-buses were on hand to transport nearly 1,000 guests from the front gate to the mansion’s front door.

Tented ballroom

Once inside and after checking in, they ambled through the living room to what used to be the backyard. Instead a mega-tent with sturdy flooring and chic seating arrangements, high tops and multiple bars and good stations were a wonderland for adults. At the far end of the tented structure was a stage where Styx and Journey rallied guests like Katy and Lawrence Bock. On either side of the stage were drive-in-movie size screens.

Katy and Lawrence Bock

It was indeed a good thing that the floor was made to withstand a pounding. By the time Journey appeared on stage, only a few sat on the couches. The rest were on their feet either dancing or with arms lifted with cellphones to capture the performance.

Journey on stage and guests dancing

Arm raising audience

Tie headband

One gent who had arrived in proper cocktail attire decided that his tie was in the wrong place. So, he moved it from around his throat to around the top of his head. Rock on!

Arnel Pineda

There was a moment when it appeared the Journey lead singer Arnel Pineda just might throw himself onto the raised arms for a body surfing. Too bad he didn’t, because this crowd wouldn’t have let him down.

Neal Schon

On one side of the stage, guitarist Neal Schon was in a dandy mood. Perhaps it was the gaggle of gals were who applauding his strumming, or perhaps it was his wedding to former White House party crasher Michaele Salahi just eight days away in San Francisco. (If you weren’t able to attend the nuptials, it will be on pay-per-view benefiting the victims of Typhoon Haiyan in the Philippines.

As if the music and light show weren’t enough, the mirrored top tables and martini glasses only ramped up the jamming mood. But even that wasn’t enough. From up above it showered white. No, it wasn’t snow. It was confetti. At this point even the serving staff watched in awe and pulled out their cellphone cameras.

Serving staff and confetti

Lisa was both surprised and pleased at the turnout. She had really thought that Mother Nature would throw a wrench in the festivities, but her friends didn’t let a little thing like a deep freeze keep them from a Lisa BB event.

Nor did the chill give a cold shoulder to the philanthropic efforts. One source reported that donations to Vogel Alcove had added up to $250,000. And like every good hostess, Lisa reciprocated by matching that amount.

A passing guest summed up Lisa’s efforts: “This is the heart of the city.”

As the final hours of 2013 tick away, memories of the past year seem abundant. The most touching are the losses of friends and family. They came from all walks of life. Their contributions ranged from volunteering countless hours to providing majors sources of revenue for those in need.

But instead of mourning their death, we should celebrate their lives and the inspiration they gifted others.  Some of those, whom we have lost include:

Randall Copeland (File photo)

Nash Flores (File photo)

Margaret Folsom (File photo)

Vance Miller (File photo)

Glenn Simmons (File photo)

Harold Simmons (File photo)

• Brent Blanton
• Lance Brennan
• Curtis Castleberry
• Van Cliburn
• Randall Copeland
• Elizabeth Criswell
• Donald Driensky
• Paul Eggers
• Frank Elliott
• Lil England
• Nash D. Flores III
• Margaret Folsom
• Dee Hughes
• Kidd Kraddick
• Lawrence Marcus
• Ann Thompson Maguire
• Vance Miller
• Burl Osborne
• Dennis Parravano
• Bob Porter
• Glenn Simmons
• Harold Simmons
• Peggy Thompson
• Elgin Ware
• Betty Lu Williams

This past Saturday the Cuellar family lost one of its senior members — Frank X. Cuellar Jr. The son of one of the original El Chico Mama’s boys, Frank was instrumental in various areas of the El Chico operation. If you don’t know the story of El Chico and this family that introduced Tex-Mex food to rest of the country, please check out Nancy Nichols’ fascinating articles on the Cuellar family and their involvement in Dallas’ Tex-Mex food world.

But Frank was more than involved in just the family business. He also served on the boards of the Dallas Restaurant Association, Texas Restaurant Association, National Restaurant Association, El Centro Food Service Institute, DCCCD Foundation Board, Lighthouse for the Blind, Methodist Hospital Board of Trustees, UTSW Medical Heart and Lung Foundation Board, National Conference of Christians and Jews, Metropolitan Serra Club, Christ the King Education Trust, Knight Grand Cross of the Holy Sepulchre of Jerusalem and Catholic Community Appeal.

A memorial mass will be held Saturday, January 11, at Christ the King Catholic Church.